Psychology & Come Date With Me .Com
Bringing fundamental changes, Comedatewithme .com is a new online dating concept which may also change the direction & psychology to online dating. The now old but existing concepts, who's foundations are based on swiping and searching profiles has produced some ugly truths which are well documented here at Psychology Today.
When we say no more searching via profiles is not entirely true. Investing some time reading profiles will be required, especially if you have advertised your date. A fundamental difference is you’ll be reading the biographies & profiles of people who have shown a real interested in you. And not just because of your picture & profile but because of a fun & fantastic date you have organised & planned for.
Imagining a room, (your city), full with single people. You write up a date description & slap it on the wall. Following this you get to interview all or some of those who wish to join you.
Before we dive any further into the psychology of Comedatewithme .com, let's take a look at the procedures and use of the conventional swipe away platforms and its inherent culture.
It's been a tiresome Monday and you had a bad case of the Monday-itis. Reminiscing you think! your event-less weekend was missing something. Missing good company and probably you where longing for a date. So, you switch on Tinder or Plenty of Fish in the hope of flipping or swiping in a date for the coming weekend.
You flick left & right & 'tick', it's a match. Read his or her profile & it’s a, nope! Flick again & 'tick' another match. Read the profile & it’s a, hmm maybe. What’s apparent, they are not online but for curiosity sake you leave a brief message. Then you continue & flick a few more & bang, number 3 it's a match!
Things seemly are going very well when you notice this one is online. On to reading their biography & it’s an ah-maybe again. Not overly or terribly enthused, you consider an opening line & settle for, ‘hi how are you doing & how was your weekend’. Wait a little with no reply. Maybe they're texting with someone else. Get flicking again flick-flick-flick-flick and it would seem your luck has turned south. No immediate interest so you swipe Tinder the app away.
After dinner you return with your appetite dampened & you have a full stomach. Someone from Tinder has left a message. Get to responding with replies coming back immediately. Texting/talking about the weekend when boom, their Harley is red. ‘Red Harley- I didn’t know you had a Harley.’ ‘Whoops sorry, that wasn’t meant for you.’ Okay time waster ‘see ya bye'.
You get flick-flick flicking again when 'pow-bang', a match with a profile to kill for. Great job, great interests, nice body & face along with. Online - so message them quickly. Wow appetite returned as this is too good to be true especially when they respond almost immediate.
Texting is going great when they ask if you have another way of communicating. So, they can show you some pictures from there awesome weekend. What’s-app maybe. Okay what harm can come from it. Exchange details and once connected there's a ‘hi’, followed by an image. You down load it and double boom - genitalia pic! You can’t figure, is that a penis or virgin a?
From here goes either way depending on whom & what you are looking for. Let’s say for this story you are the damn-block-delete kind of person. Your Monday evening has been exhausting & it’s now time to hit the sack. Soon as your head smashes the pillow your eyes shut with a permanent image stamped and sitting on your forehead. Thinking out loud, 'with genitalia like that it is no wonder they're on tinder'. Damn, why am I on tinder?
In the hope of finding a date for the weekend you may or may not continue with this trend over the coming four evenings. But what is for sure is that the events from above are part of your daily routine and pursuit for love on the swipe away platforms.
Psychology of Come Date with Me
It’s Monday and you switch on Comedatewithme .com.
Under the listed dates & from the previous week two dates have complete. Browsing over them you become curious & cannot help but wonder who got select from the list of contestants. So, you check on the completed date’s section. A follow up from the dates has not yet posted so you decide to check on this later in the week.
Within the Quick Date forum there’s an advertised date for tomorrow eve. It’s an exclusive kind of date but in Quick Date because of the short notice. The dates host is offering to take the right contestant to a show in the west end & awesomely so, you have tomorrow night absolute free.
Having always wanted to see this show you decide it may be worth to check on their profile. First impressions are they seem like a nice person. You whisper to yourself, what the heck - nothing ventured nothing gained. You respond to the date by writing on how much you would be enthused to join them and why.
Seems it’s a popular west end show and there are already other contestants of notable probability. In other words, there is a wealth of competition. Now is a good time to switch off and prepare dinner.
On a full Stomach
After dinner enthusiastically, you check to see how the date has played out.
Firstly, on the activity feed you notice some people’s comments are making you a favourite & you can’t help but feel the excitement rising within. You head to the dates-forum and yes, the date has already closed. Now you check on your messages & voilà, there is a message from the date’s host. The message isn’t what you had expected but hey, they have left you a courteous message which proves they were nice.
There's a gulping sinking feeling as the reversal in excitement dissipates from your body. You really fancied the show on offer. Still in a positive frame of mind you decide this will not spoil this coming weekend. So, you check online for tickets and value for money is, 'surprise' this Saturday. You purchase the tickets and immediately advertise on the Night Out - date forum.
All this is on the Monday night and as this is a popular west end show, by Wednesday eve you have 20 profiles to read through. So, you close the date by choosing one of the contestants.
Exclusive Dates on Come Date with Me. Com
With your date all organized for the weekend, curiously you check on the completed date's section.
A date from the Tickets-For-Two has completed their follow up. Advertised a few weeks back, the date from an elderly retired couple was a fairly exclusive kind of date. They caught the Orient express to Paris, spent all weekend and returned on the Monday via Eurostar. Not giving too much away, they had a fantastic trip and great time and now will remain friends.
Noticing another date from last week, has also given a run down on their weekends date. Having gone to a restaurant for a romantic dinner, they confess there was a spark! and now will be going on date number two. They also, simply stated neither are going to advertise on Comedatewithme .com again anytime soon.
You then wonder if your date for the coming weekend could possibly be so lucky with this kind of outcome. Maybe you never know, at the very least it's been fun trying...
With Comedatewithme .coms platform, the people whom approach the system with open honesty & enthusiasm will reap the most reward. The more thought we put into our dates the more we will get back. This new concept will provide an entertaining environment where the psychology & future to online dating can finally evolve.
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