Come date with me & the Psychology Of
When we say no more searching via profiles is not exactly true. Investing some time reading profiles will be required especially if you have advertised your date. One such fundamental difference is you will be reading the biographies of people who have shown an interested in you and not just because of your picture & profile but because of a date you have organized & planned for.
Psychology of Tinder
Take this example - it is Monday & your weekend hasn't gone particularly well. When you look back you think it was missing something. Missing some company or maybe a date. So you switch on Tinder or Plenty of Fish and get planning for the coming weekend.
You flick left & right & bang you get a match. Read his or her profile - eeek nope. Flick again and bang a match. Read the profile & it’s an uhm maybe. Its apparent they are not online so you leave them a message. Then you continue and flick a few and bang another match. Things are going well & you instantly notice they're online so you read there bio & its a ahh maybe again. Not terribly enthused you consider an opening line & settle for ‘hi how are you doing & how was your weekend’. Wait a little and no reply. Maybe they are texting with someone else.
Get flicking again, flick-flick-flick-flick and my luck has changed, no immediate interest so switch off. After dinner you return with your appetite dampened with a full stomach. There is a returning message from before. Get to responding with replies coming back immediately. Texting/talking about the weekend when wham there Harley is red. ‘Red Harley- I didn’t know you had a Harley.’ ‘Ooops sorry that wasn’t meant for you.’ Ok - one of them ‘see ya bye'.
You flick-flick and bang - nope - nope - nope & ka-bang, a match with a profile to kill for. Great job, great interests & body & face to go with. Online and message them quick. Wow appetite returned as this is too good to be true especially when they respond almost immediate. Texting seems to be going well & they ask you if you have another way of communicating so they can show you some pictures from there awesome weekend. Whats-app maybe. Ok what harm can come from it, you exchange details and once connected there's a ‘hi’, followed by an image. You down load it and boom - dick or vagina pic.
Now from here goes either way depending on who & what you are looking for. Let’s say for this story you are the damn-block-delete kind of person. Now you think it’s time to put down for the eve and soon as your head hits the pillow your eyes shut with the permanent image stamped and sitting on your forehead. Thinking out loud you say to yourself 'with genitalia like that it is no wonder they're on tinder! Why am I on tinder'?
You may or may not continue with this trend over the coming four evenings. But what is for sure is that these scenarios from above are part of your daily routine and pursuit for love on the swipe away platforms.
Come Date With Me's Psychology
Now let’s take this example – its Monday and it’s time to switch on Comedatewithme.com. Under the listed dates & from the previous week two dates have complete. You wonder who they had chosen from their selection of contestants so you check on the completed dates section. But a follow up from the date has not yet been posted so you decide you will check on this later in the week.
You head back to the Quick Date group & notice an advertised date for tomorrow eve. It’s an exclusive kind of date but in Quick Date because it’s of short notice. The date is for a show in the west end which is for tomorrow & awesomely so, you have tomorrow free. Having always wanted to see this show you decide to check on there profile. First impressions are they seem like a nice person so you think what the heck - nothing ventured nothing gained. You respond to the date by writing on how much you would be enthused to join them and why.
Seems it’s a popular west end show and there is already other contestants of notable probability. So you switch off and prepare dinner.
On a full Stomach
After dinner you check to see how the date has played out. Firstly on the activity feed you notice peoples comments are making you one of the favourites. You head to the dates-forum and yes the date has already closed. So now you check on your messages & yes there is a message from the dates host. The message isn’t what you had expected but hey, they have left you a courteous message which proves they were a nice person.
Because you would have loved to have seen that show there is a sinking feeling. Then you think, OK I'm not letting this spoil my party & coming weekend. So you check online for tickets and value for money is for 'surprise', this Saturday. You purchase the tickets and immediately advertise on the Night Out - date forum. All this is on the Monday night and as this is a popular west end show you have 20 profiles to read through by Wednesday eve. So you close the date by choosing one of the contestants.
With this all organized you head back to the completed dates section and read over some of the completed dates.
A date from the Tickets-For-Two has complete a follow up. The date being a fairly exclusive kind of date was advertised a few weeks back. They caught the Orient express to Paris, spent the weekend and returned by Eurostar. Being an elderly retired couple they had had a very nice time but will remain friends.
One of the dates you had noticed from last week has given a run down on their weekends date. Seems they have had a really nice time and you think these two will not be advertising any time soon. You then wonder if your date in the coming weekend could possibly be so rewarding. Maybe you never know, at the very least it's been fun trying…..........
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