About Comedatewithme & Dating Forum

Dating forums  making connections like computer code in a perfect functioning way..

If sometimes you think of a date, activity or event, or something you would like to participate requiring a partner as in ballroom dancing but have nobody to go/share with, then comedatewithme is the place for you. On this site, the meaning to date depends on each individual needs or wants and date can mean whatever you attribute to the word date. Date is limitless by meaning but refined for this site will mean, I shall never need not do something because I have nobody to do it with again. 

If you arrived on this page for any of the following reasons: noticed online communication is increasingly less meaningful; we have turned into an instant gratification culture: swipe away platforms are not working: looking for a new way then you are in the exact right place.

This is a platform doing away with old practices and reinventing how we connect one to another on the internet. It is here where we will connect through our words and thoughts. The platform gives us an opportunity to articulate in our own authentic words with a date place and time you have in mind.

Challenging us in many ways, but most challenging of all is to overcome that all too common human trait 'judgement'. Now ask yourself, judgement for what exactly, taking a direct more proactive and less time wasting approach. For taking a chance on putting yourself out there with actual words instead of a face shot.

Symmetry of Words Creating Connections

The type of date you choose will not be grounds for judgement either because the out-come solely depends on each individual effort. Example: the more creativity in your writing will dictate the level of creativity in response. This is the response we all participating will be looking for. Not just in the level of creativity but in how we choose to put our words down, in what order and what that order will say about ourselves. Like in computer code, it will unite us uniquely and in a perfect functioning kind of way. Also integral to your personal dates outcome is how you approach either advertising your date or if you are to respond, is to remain honest. Because without honesty will mess up the code and your chances of making an authentic connection decrease or malfunctions.

Also meaning it is not a good idea to lie about your age even a little, there really is no point. 

A Change from the Swipe Away Culture

Welcome to the date forums at Comedatewithme .com, an evolution on dating concepts & finally a dating site for just that, dating! This is where you can be the participant and host of your own dating show and where date takes on a whole new meaning.

Being unique and first of its kind, this new online dating concept, and date forums sets itself apart from all other platforms. The design of Comedatewithme is to meet some of the online dating markets existing & ominous demands. One such demand is to offer an alternative & to step away from the swipe away culture.

Dopamine's Hit

Current online development paths have stagnated and not fully evolved. With careful analyses, swipe left or right is no different from the very first messaging & profile searching services. Giving quicker access and flow to both of these is not evolving or keeping up with the ever-improving internet. This heavily reliant on peoples beautified picture searching (for an overwhelming majority), appear to do little more than offer a little dopamine hit providing an instant but short lasting gratification.

A Qoute - MashableAustralia

Your finger flits through face after face as you amass matches like collectors' items left to gather dust on a forgotten shelf. You swipe, you match, you...never speak to them. So goes the interminable revolving door of online dating. To read the full article with its shocking truths - Swiping Sucks and even the dating industry knows it - HERE!

Comedatewithme constructed to meet all demands from the following three different types & groups of people.

Group 1

Simply bored with the online dating models this group of people are longing for more adventure and excitement back into their lives. Under the current systems, they have no trouble finding dates but find themselves on many of the wrong kinds of dates. Research says these people are ready for the next big thing. Well here, it is so jump on board and prepare for your date & your show.

Group 2

For those who already understand simply uploading your unique picture & profile does not work. Generally, these people will suspect algorithms will match you via your occupation and earnings. Accountants please meet accountants. For this group browsing profiles, swiping left & right, text messaging has only proven a time wasting game. With little challenge, we expect & receive little in the way of reward.

Group 3

The final group represents a staggering 1/3 of the market. Without going on a single date, they have been on a platform for three or more years. These people co-exist with category 2 and mostly fail to connect with the swipe away conundrum. Generally, this group of people are sympathetic with the notion; the current platforms do little more than promote the superficial & disconnected behaviour.

Date Forums

Dating forums, containing the appropriate rules and structures for the sole purpose of bringing people together via communication held within a public domain. By putting yourself in the chair, you advertise your date/event and choose from a list of contestants your company.

Comedatewithme.com gives you the chance to construct any kind of date you want and then to advertise that date on a date forum designed explicit to the type of date you have created.  

Your date of choice can be anything ranging from a super quick date like a coffee, to a day’s out with tickets to a festival. A few beers down the pub, dinner out for two, tickets to a play, a musical, or the opera.

Types of Dates

The type of date, agenda and rules, only set by you in your description. Theoretically, you put yourself in the chair by advertising your date. From here, you choose from a list of potential contestants who wish to join you.

Alternatively, you may come across a date on which really fancies you. You then apply by responding to the date, describing/selling yourself & only hope they pick you.

Imagining a room, (your city), full with all single people. You write a date description & slap it on the wall. You then get to interview some or all of those who wish to join you.

In the meantime before advertising your date, from the activity feed and as a groups & date forum member, you have the options of either joining in on discussions, or quietly observe on each & every date as they map & play out.

Completed dates

With the included Completed Dates section, the fun will not stop here from the closing of your date. All dates will have the option of submitting a follow up to their date. Giving details on where they have been (with ratings) & what they have done, including pictures. In time, this will provide a catalogue of date ideas for others to include in the making of their own dates.

Change to Online Dating

Instead of the hours upon weeks and years, the other platforms will take from you. Comedatewithme with a thoughtfully set out date description & a couple or many paragraphs gives you the opportunity tell the universe what you would like to do. With this direct approach, will not just save on wasted time but also may surprise you. Surprise you on how reliable the universe really is. Especially for those who are prepared to put themselves out there by playing the date-forums at Comedatewithme .com.


For the daring Comedatewithme will bring excitement & fun back into your dating. 'No more algorithms', 'No more swiping', 'No more texting', 'No more days/weeks & sometimes years without actually going on a date'. Comedatewithme cannot guarantee no more disappointment but can guarantee fun & adventure & just maybe for the one third of dating site users, who do not actually date, now become willing by putting themselves in the host's chair. So that's it, your date and your show and where date means whatever you want it to mean.

Posts of interest: 

Important how to Information - how-to

Psychology of Comedatewithme - here

Newest Concept to Online Dating - here


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