New Concept for Online Dating Sites

A new concept which promises for more excitement filled entertainment and exhilarating fun for the internet dating market. Providing a game-like environment where not only the current chair hosts with their willing contestants are somewhat nervously engaged. But also, the community of subscribed members from the activity stream & before their own eyes, will be engrossed in the individual process of each and every date. The members will have the options of either joining in on discussions or just too quietly observe. And therefore, using this time of observation for creation of their own date ideas.

Comedatewithme .com concept consists of three differently themed date forums. The names are Quick Date, Night Out & Tickets for Two. Providing a game-like environment where establishing a connection through our words and thoughts is made possible. The date forums provide a platform on which you can advertise a date you are planning on & also wish and desire for. This is a direct & simple but totally different way of doing things, especially when compared to the traditional dating sites.

Imaging a room (your city), full with all the single people. You write a date description & slap it on the wall. You then get to interview some or all of those who wish to join you. Unlike the conventional dating site platforms, you will read a limited amount of biographies. But fundamentally different these biographies are only of people who have shown a real interest in you. And not just because of your picture and profile but because of your unique & inventive date description you wish to go on.  

Observing old Concepts

Have you ever observed how many profile pics have the, 'are there any legit, real, genuine people on here', or 'no time wasters please'. When greeted with these messages can be off putting to say the least. And for a large percentage the search via profile, reading small bios, swiping away left or right does not influence a real connection. Sure, you can message them but there are many varying problems to messaging strangers. One such problem is, at the same time we are not all in the same frame of mind. When you have time and feel like messaging a total stranger does not mean the stranger in that moment will feel the same. It’s all about timing!

Dating Sites Current Statistic's

Current statistics say over one third of online dating site users have been on a platform for three or more years. And after three years, these users according to statistics have never gone on a date. (More ugly truths & statistics from Psychology Today).

You would be excused with thinking what is wrong with these people. Perhaps the question rephrased should be what is wrong with the people who are using dating sites. The answer is absolutely nothing. People are just trying to utilise the enormous potential technology & the internet has provided us with. Unfortunately, it is easy to presume the current potential is lacking because development & creation was by nothing more than extra ordinary window shoppers. Like profiles on a conveyor belt, they wiz by while you gaze through this tiny window, more commonly known as a screen. Real people need and want something more! 

And maybe it is true what many of the analyst have been writing and speaking about. That is that the online dating industry is searching for new ideas. Searching for the next big thing because it is in need for change. The current models where born out of the arrival of the internet & have failed in developing along with it.

Missing in Development

Because of this lack in development the online dating models are now dated & do not work as well as they will have you believe. Don’t get me wrong there will always be a place for the swipe away culture but we need to realise this is for only a small percentage of us.

For the majority of users would like it to be more intuitive & fun. Also, to make it exciting the concept must promote and allow us to establish a connection with the people who are communicating from the other end of our screens. This is at the very heart of what Comedatewithme.com is promising to do. By organising & writing up your date description, then a contestants articulated & thoughtfully constructed replies, promotes & allows us to connect through our words and thoughts.

Amidst a sometimes crazy wonderful but busy and chaotic life, technology has provided us with the first steps in bringing us together. We only need to utilise it with more imagination & entertainment. This is something the existing models for dating sites (the swipe away culture), have drifted attention away from. 

Comedatewithme .Coms Concept

Using what technology has to offer Comedatewithme.com is creating communities & providing a game-like environment where it’s not just about the destination but also about the journey. A journey that could be fortuitous for all. A journey that will drive us to the final destination & to the main objective. That is to get us out there meeting on dates.

The fun will not stop here with the completed date’s section. From here and following the follow up from the completed dates, we will get to see new ideas for dates of our own with places to go & things to do.

Dating Sites Behaviour Correction

In a digital age where people express themselves on any topic and in whatever manor they choose. Online behaviour is in muddy waters to say the least. These are the days of trolls. People who post inflammatory and malicious comments to deliberately provoke and upset others. Trolls whom comment on whatever topic to whomever they choose, all from the illusionary safety of their mobile screens. Consequently the internet is blurring the (in real life) boundaries which keep our behaviour in check.

What better place to start teaching us better and acceptable online practices. Other than a place on which we have to flirt and impress instead of ridicule plus demise. This the later behaviour can only succeed in 'not' getting you a date & will only succeed in getting you banned. Just maybe this is a partial link to a behaviour correction we are timely in need of.

Summary

This new concept for online dating promises to bring about change. A positive behaviour change towards a more communitive online experience Bringing back those (in real life) boundaries, we are so in the need of & deserve. A timely change to our online dating psychology, which in time itself will bring about a welcomed positive change. It will test us, testing our abilities to invent and create. It will reward us, reward for those who make the most effort in forming and creating our new dates. 

Because the time to the date will have been set, Comedatewithme.com will ensure 'timing' is in sync between the chair host and the contestant. Also, with the date already set, excitement and adventure is a guaranteed. Which in the first place, after all, is what we signed up for. 

 

 

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