How to

The how-to first step is to register via the registration form and complete your profile set up. From here you can upload a cover image & profile picture. Great advice on how to write a great online dating bio here or here!

Because this is a paid membership and new to the internet with this very first of its kind concept & method to online dating, the first 6000 members get one year's membership for £9.95.

Info on the 6000 members deal - 6000

Join a Group best suited to you.

Once registered with a group which best describes the type of date you either have constructed or wish to go on, you will gain full access to that groups date forum. Currently there are three main groups. Each group belongs to the three target cities, London, New York & Los Angeles.

They are Quick Date, Night Out & Tickets for Two.

You can join as many groups as you please and from here (the group's home page & activity feed), you either browse or alternatively, discuss amongst fellow group members on the development & listing of new dates. Or head over to the date's forum section to either respond as a contestant or create your own date via Create New Date. (You do not respond as a contestant from the activity feed, you must head over to the dates forum.)

Create New Date

When creating your new date, be as descriptive as possible trying not to leave out any details about your date. The date title will display information such as, your age / gender / the type of date (tickets, festival, pub, dinner etc...), & the calendar date.

Example – 34/Male/Dinner for 2/This Friday – 2nd

The dates description should describe the date in detail and as mentioned in the about page you make all the rules and requirements to your date. Meaning you may have tickets for two or (for the cheeky), you may require the contestant to provide the tickets.

If you have any other requirements the contestant must live and stand up too, put it in here. Put it all in here as this is your chance to perfectly construct a night or day out on which you may desire for. Try to really personalise your date, make it your own. Own it!

Your Obligations 

Although you will not be obligated to go through with your date, if at all possible it is encouraged to choose one and go. Keeping up the spirit on why you put yourself in the host's chair. What's obvious is you will have the night free, so nothing ventured, nothing gained. Also, we are betting you will have a fantastic night from a date which has eventuated from putting yourself out there & playing the game-like date forums at Comedatewithme .com. But more important is you make the decisions and that you at first are totally comfortable with your decision either way.

Important How-to Message Information

Currently there is a public messaging and private messaging (if you have become friends), service in place. We advised for communication between the dates host and the contestants to remain within & on the Dates-Forum. (Exceptional reasons excluded, meaning you may require the contestant or host to provide what is perceived to be private information about the date.) This will not only help to ensure Comedatewithme .com’s concept remains in & about the date-forums but we also think by keeping communication in the public domain (in the groups Date-Forum), this will help in the early development of new relationships & dates to be formed.

Closing a Date

A Dates closure is for one of two reasons.

1: The schedule to the date under the advertisement has expired, which would mean the host has chosen not to pick a contestant from the list of applicants. The host must include the schedule for the date in the date title.

2: On the Dates forum, eventually the date host will choose one of the contestants via a reply to the contestant of choice. Once the host has chosen a contestant the group's admin will then close the date. Observers or watchers will still have access to the date for reading but will no longer be able to reply. Before posting please find time to read the rules from the sites menu.

Completed Dates Section

Upon the completion of a date, (the dates host), will have the option of posting a follow up to their date via the Completed Dates form under the contact us menu. This can be either just pictures or a brief date description including pictures. Also, welcome would be there general ratings on places or events they have been too. Helping to spread the magic!


With anticipated excitement we would like to welcome you to this awesome adventure and we cannot wait for the shared stories that will eventuate from this new concept. Also welcome is any feedback via contacting us.


Articles of interest:

Psychology of Comedatewithme .com - here

Newest Concept to Online Dating - here

Back to Comedatewithme .com - about

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